The following is a list of questions that we must all be asking ourselves.
- Have you ever broken a bad habit? To lead others, you must master your appetites.
- Do you keep self-control when things go wrong? The leader who loses control under adversity forfeits respect and influence. A leader must be calm in crisis and resilient in disappointment.
- Do you think and act independently? A leader must use the best ideas of others to make decisions. Then make up his or her mind and not be indecisive.
- Can you handle criticism? Can you profit from it? The humble person can learn from petty criticism, even malicious criticism.
- Can you turn disappointment into creative new opportunity?
- Do you readily gain the cooperation of others and win their respect and confidence?
- Can you exert discipline without making a power play? True leadership is an internal quality of the spirit and needs no show of external force.
- Are you a peacemaker? A leader must be able to reconcile with opponents and make peace where arguments have created hostility.
- Do people trust you with difficult and delicate situations?
- Can you induce people to do happily some legitimate thing that they would not normally wish to do?
- Can you accept opposition to your viewpoint or decision without taking offense? Leaders always face opposition.
- Can you make and keep friends? Your circle of loyal friends is an index of your leadership potential.
- Do you depend on the praise of others to keep you going? Can you hold steady in the face of disapproval and even temporary loss of confidence?
- Are you at ease in the presence of strangers? Do you get nervous in the presence of your superior?
- Are the people who repost to you generally at ease? A leader should be sympathetic and friendly.
- Are you interested in people? All types? All races? No prejudice?
- Are you tactful? Can you anticipate how your words will affect a person?
- Is your will strong and steady? Leaders cannot vacillate or cannot drift with the wind.
- Can you forgive? Or do you nurse resentments and harbor ill-feelings toward those who have injured you?
- Are you reasonably optimistic? Pessimism and leadership do not mix.
- Do you feel the master passion like Paul, who said, “This one thing I do!” This kind of singleness of motive will focus your energies and powers on the desired objective. Leaders need a strong focus.
- Do you welcome responsibility?
– How we handle relationships tells a lot about our potential for leadership.
o Do other people’s failures annoy or challenge you?
o Do you use people, or cultivate people?
o Do you direct people, or develop people?
o Do you criticize or champion (encourage) people?
o Do you shun or seek out others with a special need or problem?
These tests mean little unless we act to correct our deficits and fill in the gaps with training and discipline. Perhaps the final test of Leadership Potential is whether you “sit” on the results of such an analysis or do something about it. I want to encourage you to look at the points of weakness and failure you are aware of and, in cooperation with the Holy Spirit, who is the Spirit of discipline, concentrate on strengthening those areas of weakness and correcting faults. Become the LEADER that you are!!
